Author: Phil Stevens

You Won't Like It When I'm Angry

Ah, the famous words of Bruce Banner. Right before he turned into a green-skinned, musclebound, hulking monster full of rage and capable of utter destruction!

It actually makes you think. When we get angry, are we capable of that level of destruction? Does our temper ruin people’s lives? Hurt feelings? Tear down? Scar? Manipulate? Do people walk on egg shells around you?verbal-abuse-2-312

They say that the people whom you love the most have the most access and power to hurt you. That’s pretty scary. If my spouse chooses NOT to control their anger, it could rock my world. I would always be somewhat vulnerable to their attacks. That’s a lot of power for one person to have to your heart.

So let’s turn that around.

YOU have the power to break someone else’s heart. Are you in control of your anger? Do you take opportunities to tear down your spouse? Do you bully him or her when you aren’t getting your way? How about your children? Are you bullying them? Do they have an unhealthy fear of your temper? You do realize that children are innocent and have no defense from their parents. Why should they? It’s so confusing to them as they don’t know whether to cry, run, trust, shut down, internalize, lash out, ignore, hide, etc. That’s extremely sad.

dynamiclifedevelopment8066Our very own original short film, ‘Angry‘, captures a raw and realistic conversation between a married couple who’s family is suffering as a result of the wife’s anger issues. The husband is somewhat numb and passive to these attacks. You’ll notice that he’s been on the receiving end of her anger several times and defaults to a stand-offish defense. However, there’s a point in the film where he courageously decides to address her brokenness to protect his children. Simply put, if you can relate to this film on either side, then you need help.

Who are you negatively impacting with your temper? Your spouse, children, friends or family? We encourage you to face your brokenness and seek help regarding your temper. Consider immediate counseling for you and your family to begin the healing process from the fallout of this. The quality and health of your marriage and children’s lives depend on you or your spouse seeking help with your anger issues.

What did Jesus say about anger?

‘This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God.’

-James 1:19-20, NASB

Let’s Chat!

  • Why do you think the husband finally confronted his wife about her temper?
  • What do you think he said that ultimately softened her heart and caused her to break down in tears?
  • How does a parent’s anger issues impact a child?  How does it shape their behavior?

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About Phil Stevens

Christ follower, happily married, proud father, producer, actor & social media strategist. I love to create things that glorify God. Love God. Love People.

Your Valentine is God's Gift:Companionship

Happy Valentine’s Day Pressure Points family!

Second only to God, remember to make your spouse first priority. They should always be a priority over your children, other family members, friends, your career, ministries, etc. Cherish the great gift God has given you in a companion.

Please also enjoy our most romantic original film of the series, ‘Last‘. Starring Emily Barnes & Danny Williams. A newlywed wife is fed up with her husband’s best friends taking priority in his life.
(Song of Solomon 7: 11-12)

Wives,

Johnny Warrior

A little boy wants to be the hero, defending the fort and saving others from danger. As a man, he wants to be the prince, the hero that his princess admires, believes in and respects. He is designed by God to be a man of honor, one who is responsible to provide and care for his princess.

Respect and honor your husbands, putting him second only to God. As you are his princess, he is your prince. Let him be your hero, under God.

Husbands,Princess

God has put in the tender heart of every little girl to be a princess. She dresses up, talks about it, even dreams about it. As a woman, she wants to be first in the heart of her prince. She wants to be loved and treasured like a princess.

Putting God first in your lives, honor and treasure your wives with everything you have.

You are loved!

*Photos courtesy of Mary Anne Morgan Photography

 

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About Phil Stevens

Christ follower, happily married, proud father, producer, actor & social media strategist. I love to create things that glorify God. Love God. Love People.

Just A Status Update Please

“Hi honey. Just a status update please….”blah blah faded

“Um… No.”

Fellas. We were wired to be logical, rational, quick-thinking creatures. We lead with our head, and not with our heart. However, our wives lead with their heart and emotions. In truth, it’s the perfect combination, hence why God created marriage.

Here’s the scenario, we meet up with our wives after a long day and want a quick ‘status update’ before unwinding, unraveling and relaxing. What you would like to hear is…

Her: “Jimmy was late for school, grounded all weekend. The Smith’s are moving to Idaho next week; new job. Taylor had her baby. Boy. Fat. Dinner is Lasagna and I paid the bills.”

You: “Ah… perfect.”

No, no, no. Here’s the kicker! She doesn’t want to JUST give you a status update. She wants to have a meaningful conversation with you. Wait… what? A whole conversation? But I just got home.

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About Phil Stevens

Christ follower, happily married, proud father, producer, actor & social media strategist. I love to create things that glorify God. Love God. Love People.

Welcome to Our Blog

Pressure Points Blog

Hello and welcome to our new blog! We are so excited that you came to visit, and we hope that you’ll return, be encouraged and uplifted from our content. With this blog, we’ll share marriage stories, testimonials, interesting marriage tips & topics and news about our ministry films.

If you don’t already know, Pressure Points is a ministry based on a proactive, honest, loving, and graceful approach to marital conflict. Our goal is to fight against the negative energy that can build up and viciously attack marriages, often leading to divorce. Read more about us »

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You are loved.

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About Phil Stevens

Christ follower, happily married, proud father, producer, actor & social media strategist. I love to create things that glorify God. Love God. Love People.