People are Watching


Did you know that people watch your marriage when you least expect it?

This past weekend was extremely busy. My husband was directing the next episode for Pressure Points marriage ministry. He had cast two actors to play a married couple with children. The woman playing the wife was married in real life, the male actor was not. Prior to the shoot, they read through the script so that my husband could explain husband-wife interactions.

On the day of the shoot, I was responsible for craft services (translation: feed the cast and crew). I showed up with a plethora of goodies and had it all waiting to be devoured. One of the items was deli meat. After I set it out, it became clear that the filming was running behind and I don’t like to have meat sitting out for too long. During a quick break I told my husband that I was going to put the food in the fridge. He told me to leave it out, they only had 15 more minutes (translation: an hour). It was a quick, small interaction of different opinions.

No big deal, right?

Honestly, I didn’t think too much about it. After the long day, my husband came home and told me that the male actor observed our brief interaction and called it “doing research” by watching how we each handled the small difference of opinion. Although we had disagreed, he recognized that my husband deferred the final decision to me. My husband told him that because he gave me the responsibility of the food, that ultimately he trusted my final decision about what to do with the food.

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Sounds so silly, doesn’t it?

The reality is that there is always someone watching how you interact with your spouse. It could be your neighbors, friends, and especially your children. How you handle things is what will mark people. It may be a small interaction like the one above, but it can also be a shouting match at the grocery store.

The question is how aware are you about your actions in front of other people?

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